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Okay. Let me see... What year is it.... 2008 I believe. So tell me why people still have shotgun weddings. And no, I will not accept the, "but I do not want my spawn to be born into a relationship where I am not married." So you would rather have them be born in to a facade that was created simply because you did not want to look bad. What if the relationship is loveless?  It just irks me beyond all. Especially since the person is 2 years older than I am and has another kid from someone else whom she tried to marry. But really, all she wants is to be with someone because she has no real identity herself. Which is sick and sad. I have had many problems with this person in the past but since I am with Andrew I have no choice to be around this person. But that doesn't change the fact that I think it is rather sad.
You should marry someone because you both are in an awesome great standing relationship. love each other, are friends as well as lovers. Not just because you are looking for a man on the prowl and happen to find one that is dumb enough to go along with it. Especially since they both have not experienced any of the real world. It just makes me sick and bothers me especially because Andrews mom is trying to pressure me to "Go to Vegas and just get married" like her daughter did. Umm no, I am just not ready for that and neither is he. Maybe 6 months, maybe next year, maybe 10, maybe never. The point is, why would you encourage your kids just to get married because they knocked some broad up (even if Andrew and I have been together for a few years now), or they are the one that got knocked up. Would you not want your kids to marry for love and because that particular person is right for and good for them?
Anyhow, thanks for listening LJ, I love you. and none of this probably makes sense but whatever.

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ericalorraine
Apr. 17th, 2008 01:22 am (UTC)
It made sense. I totally agree! Don't let people pressure you. good for you.
somechickxoxo
Apr. 22nd, 2008 02:34 am (UTC)
Thank you! :)
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